Mum is way too overprotective?

I'm a 15 year old girl and my mum is way too overprotective. But she has only started being über protective these last coupl of years.

i have to be in before it gets dark, even when I'm with trusted friends she knows.kinda fair enough but even when I'm in their houses i still have to be in before dark.

she does not allow me to use my iPhone or iPod touch in my bedroom because she doesn't want me to talk to people i don't know online? I don't anyway, never have. She also looks at my Facebook qccount every day.

she's constantley asking who I'm texting and has to know every detail about them, if someone rings me she listens to my convos.

i have to be in bed by 10.30 every night, even on weekends and she still comes up to 'tuck me in' i guess, but not to be nice way. Only to make sure i'm not using my phone. What difference does that make?

i just want to be like everybody else my age, not having to get 'tucked in', being able to text my fiends without 9000 questions, be in when they all do and go to sleepovers and stuff.

if i'm grumpy or tired she presumes that i have been talking to guys online and staying up all night talking to them.

she doesn't/didn't do this with my older brother.

i hate it, I have tried speaking to her but all she does is shout at me. I can't have a convosation with her without her telling me what is right and wrong.

i'm not allowed a boyfriend until i'm 16, i have had a couple but they were just stupid teenage ones. I hate people my age who think they are i love eugh.

thoughts and help would be nice?

Mom's can be like that. And even though this is easier said than done, you have to confront her about it cuz this is obviously getting way out of hand. Be really firm and get it through her head that you need your freedom.