My cousin steals all my clothes

Okay so my cousin is really poor, and we're pretty well off, so to help them my mom lets them come to my house and clean, and pays her very well! Anyway my mom let my cousin have the clothes that don't fit or we don't like anymore, I have no problem with that I'm glad we could help! But today I was looking at her Facebook profile, and I pics of her with my raybans, my designer bags, all of my designer clothes my mom just bought for me, and my iPhone 4! I lost these things a while back, but I had no idea where they went! I'm so upset all of our family takes advantage of us and I'm sick! Sorry for the rant.

I empathize with you.

That sucks… Maybe call the fuzz about the phone. Don't let people take advantage of you. You call them shell learn pretty quick not to *** with you. Also tell your mom let her know that she's stealing your stuff. Your mom should help deal with it too.

I'm sorry to hear about the stress and tension you are facing in this situation with your extended family. It can be so tough when we're at odds with family members and having difficulty figuring out how to move forward.

As I was reading your question, an article series came to mind that I think might be helpful for you guys. I actually happen to work with a marriage and family non-profit group and they have a great article series on Conflict Resolution, including a section on family conflicts, that could be really useful, and you can find that article series here: I know that sometimes it can also be really helpful to have someone to talk to who can give an outsider's perspective. If that is something you would be interested in, the group I work for also has some counselors on staff who would love to hear about what is going on and talk through things with you (at no cost to you) and you can connect with them through this link: https://focusonthefamily.webconnex.com/counselingrequests?refcd=88704&p=1157699?campaign=rs

I hope some of this helps a little, and that everything works out okay between you all.