My iPhone 5 will not connect to my laptop or iTunes

I plug my USB cable into the port and then I connect my iPhone, my laptop makes a noise to signify something is plugged in, but my phone does not charge or connect to iTunes. I'm not sure what to do. I'm just trying to upload my pictures and add music.

I have the latest iTunes update
My phone does not have ios 7 (I don't like the look of it and I'm trying to avoid it as long as I can)
I've restarted both the computer and phone and nothing changed
I've tried all three of my USB ports and nothing happened
I have two chargers and they both work with my wall charger and my phone will charge with them

If someone has any idea what I should do please help!