My boyfriend kept texting his ex… It upset me so I asked him to stop. He wrote a long messsge to her telling her how he was never going to speak to her again and then blocked her number in front of me.
Today, however, he confessed that he had been texting her behind my back and had had her number saved in his phone under a different name all along. He claims he had only been texting her to see if she was aright (because she apparently had recently been dumped by a different guy.) I however, am quite upset by this. I don't text any of my ex's, or talk to them in any way, so why should he? He claims that it is "none of my business" who he texts. I know most of his friends are female and that is fine; I don't care about that, I just don't think he should be texting his ex? (Who lives in another city, who he's never met in person, only online, and who cheated on him constantly.) Also, he's 21 and she's 16… He works and she's in high school. I'm 18! Closer to his age, who would never cheat and who he's met in person! Wtf should I do?
Also, I knew the passcode to his iphone but when I went to check his phone (just to see what he had really been saying to her) he had changed it. Recently. After he told me that he had been talking to her again. I'm not really sure what to think now? I need advice.