I really need advice on what to do with her… But in a way that doesn't hurt her feelings she is the sweetest person (she is really close with EVERYBODY nobody ever gets mad at her and she is so sensitive)
I'm so grateful for her help when I first joined the hospital. I was an outcast because I came from a very good university and my boss was so happy(kept mentioning it in front of the others ) to have me which made all the coworkers to avoid talking to me and ignore me… This lady was the ONLY person who was nice to me I can't forget that.
i'm in my early 20s she is in her 40s… And she LOVES DETAILS
she asks me about EVERYTHING where i'm going to vacation? With who? Who is paying? Where i'm staying? How much did I spend?
any topic I talk to she starts asing me questions to the point that I don't sit with her as much as before
one time I called her to ask about the direction of an evening dresses shop… The next day she is asking me what did you get? For how much? Who went with you? Did they get a dress too? Show me pictures
and when I give her my iphone she scrolls in my pictures and I don't like that
all that was ok-ish with me… But I'm ONLY comfortable with her… The rest of my coworkers I don't like them so much… And because she is VERY close with EVERYBODY she talks about my business with them and I discover they know EVERYTHING about me without talking to me
I don't have any "secrets" but honestly I feel so stressed when she integrate me like that