Parental iMessage Monitoring?

I want to text my friend from Canada, who has an iPhone, but I don't want to explain having international friends to my mom, because that would lead to telling her about my blog and I don't want that either. Will she see that I've texted someone from Canada on the phone bill if I use iMessage? Or will it show up at all?

  • Work iphone and employer monitoring? I have a work iphone that I use for personal yahoo email at home using my home Wi-Fi. Will the company be able to track the specific contents of my email? I'm worried as I have been emailing clients, accounts, etc. On this iphone.
  • What is the NSA Civilian Monitoring Monitoring System? On my iPhone, I go to settings, then Wi-Fi. When I look at the selections, I see all my options including my own in-home Wi-Fi service. One the options is: "NSA Civilian Monitoring Monitoring System" which is locked. What the heck is this?
  • What is a good mobile monitoring software to put on my kids iphone? Iphone 5 My kids have their phone under their mothers plan therefore I do not have access to the account. I would like something that includes call monitoring and remote microphone.
  • Text messaging monitoring service? Does anyone know of a text messaging monitoring service that lets you monitor messages by either sending duplicates to another phone or an email address? Additional info, both phones are on same plan and primary account holder wants to monitor a child. Service provider is AT&T. Phone to be monitored is an iPhone 4 Primary phone is an Android. Looking for something free or a reasonable charge for service and unbeknownst to the child. Any info will be greatly appreciated.