Relationship advice any ideas?

I have a problem within my relationship with my partner, he's lazy doesn't do anything around the house turns a blind eye to anything like DIY and pretty much most things around the house. We have a little girl who's a toddler and it's exhausting running round after her all day. I'm so fed up I actually feel like I want to leave him, but if I did where would me and my little go live? He owns his house so I would have to leave not him. I know he works hard and pays the mortgage but that's it, he's got no get up and go and our relationship is sour.
I also work part time but how would survive if I was on my own? I could t think of anything worse, but I don't want to be with him anymore. Were both in our mid 30s so not young anymore, I feel as though I've hit a brick wall. Hes dull boring and not inspired to do anything, apart from smoke in the garden after he's finished work and sit on his back side playing iphone games, I'm a very get up and go person. X

@michelle your idea is bad and you should feel bad.spiritual means? Thats black magic, not "spiritual". Wolf is sheep clothing.labelling black magic as "spiritual"

ok so its like this, men are sometimes a bit egoistic about their job in the house. For example, cooking to a man is like a womans job. So if a man had to cook, he sometimes feel less manly.sure he finds money and pays bills for the family, but one more thing he can do is buy groceries and all other man stuff. Like diy, let him know that repairing things is a man job.

i'm a man so believe me.men don't like to be pushed too much. So make sure you don't push your man too much