Should I get married if my fiancé is secretive with his social media?
He has pictures of us all over his Instagram and Facebook because he will often show me his comments/likes on our pictures. However, he doesn't want to add me as a Facebook friend or allow me on his Instagram. This seems like a red flag to me. Just a few minutes ago, he made me get up and leave the room because he was resetting his Facebook password for our new HD television. Another example is he has my iPhone password but I can't have his. If he loves me so much why is he hiding social media and passwords? I don't want a secretive marriage.
That's shady. I can tell that you really don't want to invade his privacy but by the same token, he's definitely hiding something. Before you make that serious commitment, I would confront him about it. Politely ask him to show you his accounts on the spot, don't give him time to delete anything or whatever. If he doesn't cooperate, tell him that you don't think it's going to work out. It's obvious that you don't trust him, and for good reason by the sound of it. To make things easier ON YOURSELF, try your best to remain calm. You want him to WANT to make you feel better, not upset him to the point where he doesn't give a **** what you do.
You are correct. You need to tell him this. Tell him you do not want to enter into a marriage where there are already secrets. Now, I don't have my husband's Facebook password but if I need it, I know where I can find it. I personally feel I have no need for the password. We follow each other on Facebook. He doesn't know my Facebook password either but he knows where I store all of my passwords and the key password for it, just in case.
Your concern is not the password. It's him not wanting you to follow what he does online. So confront him with this. I'd suggest you two do some pre marriage counseling too. Just with a pastor or someone at a church, no need to pay for it.
You gave your iPhone password to someone who won't even let you be in the same room when he changes his own password?
And this new TV of "ours", does that mean you're combining finances with a guy who apparently doesn't even trust you?
You already know something is really off here. This relationship is unequal and insulting. If you don't want a secretive marriage, then you can't marry a secretive man.
You already know the answer to this,
you are just looking for confirmation
or validation from outsiders. DO NOT
MARRY THIS PERSON. Hope that
is clear enough for you.
He loves u all right, but he wants to continue seeing other people. Under other people i mean other women
No. If his doing immature things like this now! And there are secrets Then what's marriage going to be like. Do you really want that!
You don't get married to someone who refuses to add you as a Facebook friend. Period
He is cheating
Whether you want to accept that or not is up to you
People love to use the "I deserve privacy" shtick/excuse when they are cheating. Believe me, I know from experience. Not only do I know sl*utty people who have cheated on me and my friends who did that, but at times, I have also done that myself when I had a sex addiction.
You need to realize that if he won't share his Facebook with you and if he hides his phone and has passcode on his phone and stuff like that, then he is messaging women behind your back and meeting up with them and having sex and stuff when you aren't around
Don't feel guilty. T lol him how you feel. If you have to take a break. If there's already secrets just with social media. What happens when there are secrets at work. Why were you late? Why can't I meet your office friends? I have my boyfriends passwords, and he has mine. If he doesn't like someone he blocks them. Same as me.
Marriage is based upon trust.
You don't trust him.
That's ALL you need to know.
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