Texting boys problem help anyone?

Before i start i want to let you know that i'm 14 so you get a better idea of the situation
i got numbers of some of guys from camp so i could keep in touch but i don't have a phone so i decided to use my moms phone (iphone) to text friends. My dad said that i would get a iphone soon starting from September but now that my mom found out that i will text boys she doesn't want me to have a phone and she doesn't want me socializing with boys… Its so annoying how she won't understand they are just friends. Why won't she let me text and talk to boys. How can i get her to be ok with me talking to boys? I really need a phone please help

Dear Apple company loving girl, Well if your a loving Girl why MOM is treating U this way? Well Sweetie Try & B polite & sensible throughout the discussion. Displaying whiny and childish behavior is a guaranteed way to show you are not mature enough to handle a l phone. Displaying whiny and childish behavior is a guaranteed way 2 show your not mature enough 2 handle it. Be chilled out & calm yourself & prepare urself if they say no. If you take it easy like it doesn't matter when they say no, chances are you might get a phone soon because you took the situation & kept it simple, which is very mature. You want to find a time to speak privately with Mom about this when she is relaxed and in a good mood(Make sure you are in a good mood as well). Do not rush into a discussion when she just gotten home from work. Wait until the weekend or when she is relaxed, just sit there and make little noises so you can get her attention but do not keep calling her name).Write a letter List out the reasons you need & deserve a I phone. Explain what you're willing 2 do 2 help out with this added responsibility. MOM will be impressed that you took the time to handle the situation in a mature fashion. Since the issue is about taking to boys well construct logical arguments against that. Explain to her that you are just friends you will see in school and you are and will talk to your girlfriends and men friends not boyfriends. Try joining an extracurricular class with odd timings and insist she let you carry her phones. Let her pick the phone and plan that way she will limit the minutes but you can change it later. USE YOUR DAD HE IS ON YOUR SIDE ASK FOR HIS Help TO TALK TO MOM. Get an instant messenger account. Do NOT complain in a whiny voice if she say no. That might just show her that you are not being responsible about it and you will probably just have to wait longer if you do that. Promise that you won't go over the limit for the phone and keep that promise! If you do go over the limit for texting or minutes, insist that you pay the extra money! And you only talk as friends nothing more. Promise not talk about it a lot or else your Mom will get annoyed and say no as well! Always answer when your parents text or call. Do not ask them for a specific phone. You are asking them for a cell phone to meet basic needs, not to be stylish. ASK DAD FOR Help BE NICE TO MOM SWEET GENTLE SHE WILL COME ALONG. Good luck best wishes just ask nicely dear and always say please MOM please… XXX