Why is my ex hurting my feelings when he knows I'm hurt already why is he pushing it?

About two weeks ago I downloaded a app on my iphone to use a different number other then my own, my now ex was messaging this girl on Facebook where we're from who's a known fast girl that was weeks ago. Ok so I text him from my app pretending to be her & told him that it was my new number & did he want to go out. He wasn't buying it I guess. About a half hour later I get a call from the girl I was pretending to be (yes I was shocked) I explained to her it was a joke & I was tricking my boyfriend because I seen they had a conversation before. She then went on telling me that my boyfriend was at her house a week a go, spent he night & had sex! This happened twice the first they didn't have sex. Ok so she then went on saying that he told her him & I had a understanding that we not going to be together because I moved back home & I'm to far away (MOved to NY from AL) NO we never agreed on anything like that. He asked me to marry him & told me he was going to get a house for us including my two kids that I have witch makes this harder for me because I let this man into my children lives. He told her about the Facebook post I put on his page about me missing him he told her he didn't know why I'm doing that because we not together. Before all this s%#^ he was telling me how much he loved me, wanted me to come bck&missed me everyday but we did argue via text everyday. Yesterday he hurt me with this message, crushed my spirit. I was mentally-physically abused before I met him.Why is my ex hurting my feelings when he knows IIm hurt already why is he pushing it - 1

Woman you need to grow up… Seriously

Get over it and move on. You act like he is the only man left in the world.

I can see your heart is broken. At the very least you have had a misunderstanding and at worst he cheated on you. You need to talk to him clamly and rationally and see what he views your relationship as… FWB? Open? Committed (although he told the woman he wasn't)? Casual- a fun lay? You need to find out so you can either make it what you want or let it go. You have been misused before, so it will be easy for you to just take it- for the sake of the kids- but don't. You need a stable man that is committed to you and loves you and your children

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