Can I control my iphone through my apple ID?

Someone stole my iphone and i hadn't had a chance to sync it to my itunes my question is can i control it with my apple ID as in delete all my personal things: pictures, contacts, apps?

No, the only thing you can mmannage is your songs and apps. You have no power over what happens to everything else. BUT! You can call your phone service and they will cancle everything on your phone and give you a new phone with everything else on it.

Not through the Apple ID per sé, but through the Find My iPhone app, assuming you had it installed.