Can I have some advice from gay men only please?

I'm a female and I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost 2 years. He's the best boyfriend I've ever had. We're both in our late 20s almost 30. And I have a little girl who my boyfriend has taken in as his own. I hBe been noticing some things with my boyfriend though and I can't stop wondering here and there, if he's a closet gay. He is extremely close to a guy at his work whose 30 years older than him. This guy put my boyfriend on his phone plan and got him a brand new iPhone last year even though my boyfriend makes his own payments for it. He also leased his car to my boyfriend and my boyfriend bought it. My boyfriend gets us and paces whenever this man calls. And he takes my boyfriend out to lunch a lot, always without me invited. My boyfriend will just lay next to me a lot and doesn't hold me or kiss or try to unless it's a peck. He says it's cause he's tired from work and it's late at nite. But when morning comes he acts the same. He did something with a guy years ago but only cause he needed drugs. He's a recovering addict.Am I overthinking?

Sorry, not a gay man.

I'd worry more about whether Boyfriend is scoring drugs than having sex. Though it sounds like he's doing both.

Honestly I think he might be gay, he could be going through a small "phase" where he lives boys at the moment then girls then boys then girls and so on… It's hard to explain. I'm sure he still loves you and is think you should sit down with him and ask him if he's bi and that you still live him if he is bi or not and if he is you could buy a strap on?

I have a girlfriend but, I will suck a guy off for weed money any day of the week and think nothing of it, I think your boyfriend might be dabbling on the side and there are no shortages of men willing to pay for sex.