How do i gain my mom's trust back and how do i persaude her to take off parental controls?

2 months ago I was hanging out with my friends and decided to throw a ball on the highway ( I didn't think before doing this) but I missed a car and he turned into my neighborhood and I had to show him where I lived *long story short later on she went through my iphone later on that night and she caught me talking to a girl (inappropriately) and I got in trouble so now I have a samsung with dumb parental controls

Good luck

Trust is usually extremely hard to earn back once lost, but in your case it seems solvable,
Speak to your mom 1 to 1 confessing you was stupid about the ball, and didn't think properly also saying it won't happen again, that will die down over time for sure, it's difficult to say about the girl problem because i'm unsure how old you are, but again if you're below 16 then say you were curious about talking to girls and never meant to be inappropriate. Hope this helped.

Factory reset

You start by acting right and continuing to do so instead of doing things you know are wrong. You could also try being grateful that you have a phone at all.

You're about to learn a tough lesson that most of us had to learn when we were teens. There isn't one single thing you can do or say to speed up the process where mom starts trusting you again. That's the toughest part about losing trust, because SHE decides the timeline.

So the best and only way to handle this is quietly accept it. Do not ask when you'll get your privs back, do not keep apologizing (it sounds fake), and never whine about any of this. That's toddler behavior. You'll come across a lot more mature if you avoid all this, and the quickest way to get your phone back is if she thinks you're mature enough now to use it properly.

Turn them off then XD

Trust is earned. You gain it backt by being the son she thought she was raising. Be prepared to live with the controls for a while.

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Not much you can do about it unless you want to try apologizing to your mom about it

Likely your mom will accord you greater trust as you build up a record of responsible behavior. To illustrate: Imagine a man who owes money to a bank. If he makes payments regularly, he'll earn the bank's trust and the bank may even extend more credit to him in the future. It's similar at home. If you prove trustworthy-even in small things-your mom are likely to trust you more in the future. If you focus on building up a record of trustworthy behavior, perhaps the parental control will be taken off.