How to make my girl to love me?

I was married and she was married
we fell crazy in love
we meet in 2011 and all was so beautiful we was planning for a future together and all was beautiful till one day all start to go downgrade
I update my iPhone last september and all my info got to my wife's phone
She got my girlfriend number and she started calling her making a big mess in both of our life's and that's not the sadest part, last December my girlfriend that she livevin italy husband diacnosed with liver cancer at this point she started to be
It was a very bad all this time so I decide to go and be next to her because I felt that she needed me so i left everyghing ( job, wife, house, my money )and I wend to Italy
what happen there?
She ask me to desepier from her life
the reason why she never tokd me only that she don't love me anymore
how us possible a real love because we was so in love with each other to end like tgat

The answer to your question is very simple. You can't MAKE anyone love you.
Sorry about it, but it's the truth.

It sounds like your relationship with this girl was very complicated anyway.
You had a wife at the time, and I'm not judging, but you could have both handled things a lot better.

maybe you feel that you love this woman, but she told you to disappear from her life.
Sadly this is the only thing that you can do right now.

If needed seek some further help such as counselling, which would be much more helpful in the long-term than posting it on here.

All the best.

Thanks Cat
I do believe that this girl still love me but her situation at home and my wife's talk made this girl to tell me to desepier
IIm 100% SURE and I believe that's this girl still love me and she think of me
When I ask why to do that and desepier from her life she could not talk
She could not tell me the WHY

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