How to tell my girlfriend this without causing any chaos?
Okay my girlfriend is a very lucky girl and she tells me lots of reasons she loves me and stuff btw we're both 16 but okay so she says there's no way she will leave me but how do I tell her I live in a trailer no I'm not trailer trash or trailer park it's a trailer near other normal houses and stuff but she thinks that I'm rich and I'm a popular kid in school I have nice shoes play basketball and am a star but how do I tell her that I don't want her to leave me Bcuz of that she thinks I have an upstairs and downstairs and I don't is a nice trailer but to her is nothing Imean she just literally upgraded her phone to the iPhone 6s+ and she is very wealthy se isn't rich but her family has no worries I just want to know how do I break this down to her Imean i have things like her though iPhone 5 and. Nice things I just don't want where I live to change her thought on me and ruin our relationship please help and real answers and thoroughly answered Imean girls I'm looking for to answer more Bcuz what would you think if you br live in one but kinda had a nice living situation was neat and it wasn't disgusting around it it's super neat we have chickens in backyard though but his feel free to answer as well
Don't be embarrassed. That's dumb. Invite her over. Plan something fun, cook for her, watch a movie.
Lol. Ah, young love. How much I miss it… Well, not really.
Look, you need to tell her. Because there's something about love that's interesting. If it's really there, then she will keep her word and if you do part, it will be on good terms. If it's not really there, she won't keep her word, and you won't part on good terms at all. And is that someone you want to be with. By hiding it, all you're doing is creating that illusion.
Either way, you're going to find the right way by being honest.
If she really cares about you, she won't leave you for where you live. And if you tell her and she does leave you, she wasn't worth it. At first, she might be surprised and a little upset. You have been lying to her, so she might take that a little hard. But, if she cares about you, she'll make no big deal about it, and keep liking you as she always had. You can tell her by sitting down and just talking. Don't try and sugar coat it or make it sound not as bad, just tell her what's going on. Also, tell her why you didn't tell her in the first place and how or why your living there. Hope I helped you out.
Don't feel ashamed or embarrassed, be happy with who you are and where you come from, there are many people in this world who don't have much, and there are many famous people and famous athletes and people who didn't have 2 or 3 story houses, but lived in trailers, lived in their cars, lived in small apartments. Not everyone'z life style is the same and that's okay be happy with who you are. I would tell your girlfriend the honest truth, I would tell her where you live and show her. If she really cared for you it wouldn't matter to her where you live, she would like you for you and that's all the matters. However if she leaves you because of where you come from, well that's when you know she is all about the materialistic things, and only likes people for the wrong reasons. If that's the case, where she judges you, or doesn't want to be with you because of where you live, and what you have you obviously deserve better than her and someone who likes you for you! Don't be scared let her know, and if she cares for you and is about the right reasons she won't judge you, but if she does well she isn't right for you!
For me If I like you that means I like you doesn't matter where you live, how much money you have, what job you have, If i like you it's because I like you for you. That's the way I see it but there are people who are not like that, and that is people you don't need in your life. You are young you are 16 years old and have a lot of maturing to do, both of you are at a young age, and just knows whatever happens, it's not the end of the world.
You can't say this through an iPhone, grow some balls and talk it out in person, you owe her that much. If she can't accept the fact your financial and home status well she's clearly not in love with you and is in it for the money.
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