My boyfriend makes more money that me and spends it all! Advice please?

Ok so I have my own house, 2 kids and a full time job which doesn't make a lot but I pay all my bills and have a little left over to save and have a little fun. My boyfriend makes about 3 times what I do monthly and shares expenses with 2 roommates. He pays when we go out to dinner weekly and buys us tickets to a few events now and then and has bought me a couple nice gifts in the 2 yrs we have been together. He is very generous with other people, lending one roommate 1, 000 which hasent been paid back after a year, has given his parents almost 30, 000 in the past yr for building a house and pays for a lot of the groceries for him and his roomies. He spends abt 3-4 days a week at my house though. He likes to go to the mall every weekend to shop. I don't have money for weekly shopping and have told him this. I usually end up sitting in a chair at the mall waiting on him to finish and spend a lot of time outside dressing rooms watching him try on clothes. I drive a 13year old car and he just got a new one 7 months ago and now is upgrading to a luxury car and I have to keep looking at the cars he is checking out online every weekend. I have a half broken cell phone which I will keep till it no longer works.meanwhile he is getting the newest iphone. He dresses in all name brands and thinks nothing of dropping $100 or more on one polo shirt. I dress nice but have never dropped that kind of money on one piece of clothing. Sometimes going shopping with him makes me sad to a degree… Is that wrong of me.Advice please.
BTW although I make considerably less. I have more money in savings than he does.

Just be glad you found a man who is willing tgo date you even though you have two kids.

He sounds selfish actually --- its been two years you should either be married or broken up because you don't have that spark and he does not have it --- i could not let the lady i care for just sit while i shop --- i would love to take her shopping and buy her things --- my suggestion is move on find someone a lot more responsible and who really does care for you --- he sounds like my brother he has NOTHING and he has been earning very good money for the past 20 years and has no savings no house no nothing really --- move on

It's his money, not yours. If you don;t like how he treats you, find someone else.

You could try to fit in… Like for example Goodwill has lots of brand new name brand clothes. Just a suggestion.

What we note is that you are not in an approved registered relation. You have 2-kids and you want your so called to dance on your desires but he has got his own lookouts, which can't be surrendered to you. You have to work hard and be independent as much you can. There may be much dominating and bullying nature in you - you may try to be simple, humble and be taking PAINS (positive attitude in negative situations)