My boyfriend and I've dated for a year now. This is my first relationship so I don't want to ruin it by being clingy. But I don't want to ignore a potential issue either.
- Has a Facebook, doesn't want to make our relationship public; thinks it would 'cause drama'
- Didn't want any of his female friends and exes to know we were dating
- Within a month of us dating, we went to MA to visit his family/friends (we live in NC together; he's in the military) and he left me at his parents' house to hang out with two of his exes without me
- Within a month of us dating I found a picture on his phone of his ex posing in a pair of leopard spot panties; he said the picture was saved accidentally to his phone, he didn't save it, but it's an iPhone and being familiar with iPhones I have never ever experienced an iPhone doing that
- Used to be okay with me holding his phone but after a couple months of us dating refused to even let me touch it; says he's just always really conscious of it, so he never leaves his phone behind if he leaves the room I'm in; his phone's always locked and he never shares the code with me either
- One of his female friends texted him saying "hey handsome. " and he replied "hey beautiful girl. "
I trust my boyfriend totally. I wouldn't date him if I didn't. But he always gets mad when I ask him questions about these honestly WEIRD occurrences, so tell me: do I have a right to ask questions? Am I being overanalytical or not?