Why do people discredit my relationship? So I'm 19 and my Girlfriend of a little over a year is a Hooters girl. The day we met, a buddy and I headed down there because, well, we're poor single guys, foods cheap and then there's the girls I remember our entire conversation because I knew instantly that I liked her. She brought us our drinks and I was on my iPhone googling pick up lines
Me: Let's say hypothetically I were going to flirt with you. What number would I be?
Her: You'd be the 5th guy to flirt with me.
Me: Well because I'm a gentleman, I've googled " pick up lines" now I'm going to rattle off 3 and then you pick the one you like the least and I'll use that.
Her: * picks her least favorite *
Me: * recites line *
We continued small talk throughout the meal. She put a on the check I left her a $20 tip and my phone number, she wrote hers, and here we're. Nobody sees our relationship as " legit" because we aren't classmates who dated and we didn't meet at a party. Why the bashing? And by " people" I mean people that I live in the dorm with and know who I'm dating.