Why won't chargers charge my iPhone 5?

I got three chargers in a row and each of them say "this accessory may not be supported". I'm a tech guy so I know what chargers I need. It works on my friends phones. I don't know what's wrong though. It seems like a problem with the phone unless I was able to get three faulty chargers in a row.

Do I need to turn on SMS or MMS to text?

What exactly is SMS and MMS and can you explain it as simple as possible. I've been finding really complicated answers. Also, I have unlimited texting on the iPhone 4s with Verizon and a 2GB shared data plan. I was wondering if SMS or MMS uses data. As well as my main question, do I need to turn on SMS or MMS to text regularly?

I'm i NEED of iPhone

Ok so i have two problems with my iPhone 4s.
1) stuck power/sleep button
2) the black screen that does not respond to any buttons clicked

i looked up on youtube and the internet on how to fix this, it said to fix the black screen i have to put my device in DFU mode, well to do that i need a working power button, mine is broke, i looked up how to fix the broken power button and it says i have to go through a huge disassembly of my iPhone, i know i will lose peaces if i do that so i don't want to open it up, is there any help on here i can get? As soon as possible?

Can't find my photo on iPhone icloud backup?

I mistakenly deleted a photo from my iPhone, I backed up the phone via iCloud but could not find that single photo - I found others (that I had deleted as well) . Why is that? Do I have to access a "storage" to find it?

Transferring non-bought iTunes songs to iPhone?

Okay, I have been searching and searching and there are so many questions and answers on the internet about iTunes and song sharing that I'm so overwhelmed I thought I'd just ask my own question.

I have some songs on my iTunes library on my Mac that I didn't get from the iTunes store. They only appear on my iTunes if I'm playing from my laptop. I desperately want these songs on my iPhone before a roadtrip next week, and I know how to get paid songs on both devices (or thought I did, but that seems to have stopped working-different question) and I can't figure it out. I have tried home sharing but I can't get that to work, and I don't want to connect to my laptop via USB cord because then won't I lose the non iTunes store songs that I already have on my phone from ages ago? I'm about at my wit's end. Okay, was that confusing? Basically:

-third party songs on my laptop iTunes
-won't transfer to my iPhone wirelessly
-risk of losing songs if I connect with wire
I'm desperate and frustrated.

What happens to the lost iPhone 5s?

I've found myself in some money trouble and I thought I could report my iPhone 5s lost and get a new one from my insurance policy but I don't wanna do it if the "lost" iPhone is blocked etc so what happens to the iPhone and is there anything I can do to get away with it? I know it's wrong but I pay a lot for my contract and a lot of insurance

What's wrong with my router?

I've disable dhcp servers and enabled Mac filters. I have the Mac addresses of all my devices but it's not allowing the third phone (a droid, other two are iphones) or the laptop to connect. Double checked the Mac addresses and all that, everything's right. Why won't these two devices connect? Is there a limit on amount of wireless devices that can connect?