How to set own ringtone for iPhone 5s?

I just bought iPhone 5s and restoring it from my last iPhone 5 i thought that everything would be the same but i can't find where you can change ringtones? I've made few of my own and i'd like to set one of those- it doesn't show them. How can i set my own ringtone?

What is going on, what should I say or do?

Last night I talked to my long distance girlfriend who lives in Canada on play station network(we've known each other for a really long time). I told her to give me her e-mail address so we could talk since I got my Iphone and Ipod privileges taken away for talking to her. She kept on dodging the question and not replying about it, but then told me that she has one but she can't give it to me. I asked her why and she said "I don't know".To put her on the spot I asked her if she was with some other dude and if that's why she won't give it to me. She dodged that question also. I told her that I remembered our two month anniversary and she didn't respond to that. I suspect that she is keeping something for me and I plan on putting her on the spot again later. She also asked me why is it taking me forever to get my privileges back. I told her that I'm taking baby steps toward getting them back. She also asked why does our relationship have to rely on e-mail and I told her it's the only way I can contact her now. What should I do or say? What is going on?

Added (1). I have sent her messages about what she feels about our relationship and if there's anything that has any concerns about our relationship. She hasn't been on playstation network to see the message yet? Was the message I sent good? Also I've known her longer than two months

Iphone 4 won't restore to factory settings?

I got a new iphone from my friend but it has a passcode and i'm trying to do the reset where you hold the home button plug it in to the computer and restore. But in itunes there's a box that pops up and says "Contacting the iphone update server" it just stays there forever and then doesn't restore. What can I do so i can get this phone back to factory settings?

Reset iphone while updating

Before you say it, I know, I know I know… I'm extremely stupid for messing with my phone while it was updating.ci didn't know that you're not suppose to do this. I have an iphone 5 and I was updating it to iOS 7.0.4 and it basically froze while it was updating (as in the black screen with apple logo and the white downloading bar) and I had to use my phone so I held down the home button and the sleep/off button because I figured "oh I can just reset it and turn it on and then update it later!" Then I went to turn it back on and it had the iTunes thing on the screen and immediately I was like "oh my god what have I done!"

I'm afraid to plug it into my computer because in all honesty, I've NEVER Plugged my iphone into iTunes on my computer. I'm afraid that I will lose everything. I ABSOLUTELY do NOT want to restore. I do not want to lose my pictures! I have a year worth of amazing memories in my photo album on my phone and I would cry if I lost them forever.

I'm totally ok with losing all my songs and apps because I can just redownload them. But if I lose my pictures then they are gone forever.

Does anyone know how I can plug it into iTunes and NOT have it restore my phone?

What do people use Iphone for besides phone?

Iphone/ ipod itune

What are things Iphone can do?
Like phone, email, internet, games, music video, photos, camera, notepad, camera, maps, ebook, Facebook, Twitter, skype, google apps, messege.
any other?

I feel like it's useless. Wi-Fi, internet would be very slow.too slow to watch Youtube, difficult to type, screen is too small,. Why don't use PC instead. I don't do things like facebook, I just use it for listening to music.

Compare them to PC, specially laptop, they are much much cheaper, but still very difficult to use.

Maybe I need it to check email, takes time to turn off the pc to check email, but that I don't want to spend that much money for that.