Should I avoid girls or not?

I mean should I? I just heard avoiding them will make them flock towards you. I've been doing that for years now. I like to avoid them. I'm 22 btw. Never been with a girl before because they don't ever talk to me. Am I too young to talk to girls as well? So should I avoid them? Even when I go to college and i'm waiting for class to start or I'm in the student center, i'm just sitting there with my iphone or something just nonchalantly isolating myself in hoping that a random girl will waltz towards me and say "hi i'm so and so" and then she asks me out. I'm not shy I just feel like i'm not supposed to talk to girls at all but just plainly avoid them and wait. That's the advice i get all the time. Even at parties I do the same thing too."be yourself" that's another advice that I can't stand. To me it doesn't make any sense. How does "be yourself" apply to my situation? Seriously whoever invented that sentence really needs to be stabbed in the head. If only I could just walk up to one girl and talk to her, but I don't even know how to talk to a girl or keep a conversation going? Usually I like to stay quiet and hope the girl asks me something. Why is nothing working? Am I being myself or not?

No, don't avoid girls. No girl is going to go up to talk to you if you're just there on your freaking phone, unless you're talking to a girl on your phone.

If you're in college, the best thing I suggest is joining some clubs that interest you, this way you can find a girl who shares an interest with you. Then, you can go out and talk about your shared interests and more!

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