Should we cut them off? How much is to much when it comes to helping fam?

We have three young gentlemen in my boyfriends fam. One is his 1/2 little brother, one is his "cousin" aka his oms best friends son, and one is a fam friend. They are all over the age of 18. They all had jobs & lost them & still do not have jobs. They don't have jobs because they are not willing to work jobs like fast food/ min wage. They have their own 2 bd apt, all have iphones, and laptop, tablet, expensive clothes and shoes that they bought when they had jobs.
We have helped with bills, phones, rides to anywhere they want, they stay at our hose sometimes bc they don't have electricity or internet paid and like to use ours. They also wash clothes ect at our house. We also have taken them lots of food, and sent them LIST of places hiring that they are qualified for. We have given them money for hair cut, household stuff, bus rides, and other misc things as well (although I don't really think it ever gets spent on that)My boyfriend is getting better, but stills fills obligated to help them out.
But I fill like it might be time to seriously cut them off.
He agreed to not have them over until they have jobs again, but I fill like they just will keep coming over to use our things instead of taking care of bills at their own house. Mind you its 3 of them, and we live in a one bed, one bath small apartment. On top of that my boyfriend has a full time job and is starting his music career and school, I'm in school, work a full job, a part time job, and starting my own company.

You have done TOO much for them. They are young and able bodied, if they can't/won't take minimum wage jobs they should join the military for 3 squares and a cot.

Yes you should cut them off but they might keepbugging you. You guys works and should have nice

Cut them off. Lazy youths should learn that their laziness doesn't pay off. If your boyfriend can't realize that, though, I say break up with him.

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