Why does my Girlfriend brag all the time? - 2

My Girlfriend is kind of braggy we're both 18. I like giving her things, not always big things. Perfect example, last weekend I was out and about and I thought " I'll buy her some flowers. I buy her the flowers, give them to her, and get about 30 seconds of lovey dovey until she takes out the IPhone and starts taking pictures to upload to Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, with the caption: Best Boyfriend Ever. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the title. What bothers me, and maybe it shouldn't, is that every little thing I do for her, ends up as a tweet or a post. My older sister's Boyfriend is always doing nice things for her and they never get tweeted or posted, she knows he does it out of love and it stays between him and her whereas in my case it's between me, her, and 670 of her closest friends. I got her a bracelet for our anniversary and she wore it to school and never mentioned that it was from me, only told them the brand.

Because, he is my best friend.

She is just trying to show off to her friends so she makes them jealous

That's just how some girls are. She must be proud to have you as her boyfriend. Just go with it man, trust me it's not worth the pain.

She might be trying to make people jealous

She's just trying to make people jealous, or something. Talk it out to her about it. Maybe there's something she just needs to talk out to you.

I'm not excusing her behavior, but it's nothing new. With all these websites where you basically talk about and draw attention to yourself all the time, some people forget that the world doesn't need to know (nor cares) about everything you do. It makes the things you do less special, almost exploits them and lessens the value because now it seems like it's just a sparkly gift from a guy who's willing to spend money on her, instead of something to remind her that you care. I totally understand. Don't sound too upset when you ask because she probably has no clue what she's doing. Just let her know that always talking about what he got you makes it seem like she only cares about the object and not what it symbolizes.

If you tell her how it makes you feel and she brushes it off, maybe you might wanna give her less gifts. Sure she might take it personally, but it might help her stop objectifying your love. If she starts to complain, then tell her your feel again. Trust me, it'll drive the message home.

Because your girlfriend is a narcissist.
Tell her that you're doing this for her, not for show, and that it's offensive to you that she feels the need to be so showy.
Trust me- IT DOESN'T LOOK GOOD. Tell her that.

I understand you bro. But if you don't like her anymore cut her loose. And get your self a girl that takes turn with you buying each other thing. I know you wanna keep you relationship as a secreat they're are girls that also like that. They like keeping everything private. The girl you with only does it to get atentttion. All the stuff she puts on twitter and Facebook she does it to make someone jealous or to make more fake friends. You need a new girl bro that *** she does is childess. If you need more info hit me up. I got you.