Aux cable with remote for car?

I was wondering if anyone knows where to get a decent aux cable with a remote that I can use in my car? Much like the ipod/iphone headphones remote? My car's cd player has an aux input however it means I can't skip songs etc without using my ipod which is incredibly distracting whilst driving (so I pretty much avoid doing it unless I can pull over which is not ideal!)
I've tried various different google searches/amazon (UK) searches but not much comes up and the few that I can find tend to have bad reviews!
Any help with this/where to buy/good brands etc would be really appreciated! Thanks!

(I've also noticed there's a few audio systems where the remote is plugged into the cigarette lighter, but sadly mine is in too much of an awkward place to use whilst driving)

Maybe you need an iPod interface that way you can control all the iPod music from the car stereo and steering wheel controls, this device plugs into the bottom docking connector the other end plugs into your car stereo, external CD changer port or satellite port
using this single cable you can charge control and display all the iPod information on the car stereo screen and the audio quality is great
read on this site so you can understand how they work, you can find this in most car audio shops in the UK

http://www.oemautosound.com/