Alarm clock that's not on your phone that you can personalize the sound?

I've had a heart condition for my entire life where I can't be startled. Because of this, I've avoided alarm clocks nearly my entire life. When I have needed one, I used a phone one that has a very mild sound (ie Silk on iPhone). But I'm sick of sleeping with my phone nearby, and I know it's not healthy. I've grown up and I really need an alarm clock for work and college. Is there any actual alarm clocks where you can add your own music to wake up to, or an alarm clock with very mild noise or music so it doesn't startled someone with health problems?

How can I recover my iPhone passcode?

I got locked out of my iPhone because I made too many failed attempts. I have never connected my iPhone to iTunes, as this is a work phone.

How can I reset the passcode to get into my phone? I logged into my Apple ID, and I don't see a way to recover it online.

How do i trust third-party accessories for my iphone?

I have an iphone 7 and i recently bought some adapters off of amazon, but every minute or so i get a notice that they're not supported for my iphone. Once i unplug them and plug them back in, it works, but only for a minute. I realize this happens because its a non-apple issued item, but is there any way i can get it to work without the annoying notices?