DISABLED iPHONE 4S - can't restore the iphone?

I forgotten my passcode and have disabled my iPhone. It says: iPhone is disabled - connect to itunes. Although i have iTunes (which i use for other iDevices) i have never connected my iphone to it. When I first connected the phone to the computer, it said: iTunes could not connect to phone because it is locked with a passcode. You must enter your passcode on the iphone before it can be used with itunes.

WHAT DO I DO? THANKX

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How come people are so obsessed with the iphones?

Like seriously almost everybody has an iphone and a lot of people who do, say that their always experienceing issues with it or just not satisfied with it after they got it why get one?! There are way better phones to be bought but it seems everybody seems to think the iphone is the god of phones!

Do you have an iphone? And do you experience issues with it?
If you don't have an iphone why not? And what smart phone do you have?

IPhone 5 battery damaged from bad cable?

I bought my iPhone 5 at the end of September 2013. None of my old iPhone 30-Pin connectors work with it since they aren't lightning so I had to buy new cables, plus the one that comes with the iPhone is really short anyway. Instead of paying about $20 EACH I bought 3 for a couple bucks online from a Hong Kong retailer I use. They charged really slowly/never to 100% and in general I wasn't happy with them.

I can live with that b/c they were so cheap, but after a couple weeks I think I noticed a decline in battery life after using these cables? Apparently only the Apple-made ones have the correct circuitry in them to protect the battery from damage and stuff -- is this true/possible? I don't know if it's just in my head but it doesn't seem to last as long.

Some people say hey a cable is a fricking cable, if it charges and doesn't catch fire no problem. Others I've heard say don't use knock off lightning cables until the manufacturers have their act together since its a lot newer than the 30-Pin.

My second question is if a cheap USB extender is alright to use with the OEM cable…

Why does the Iphone 5 Camera take such odd selfies?

The photos come out looking a bit scary. Even some pics I have had taken from a distance. Like. That doesn't look like me at ALL?! And yet the mirror pics look alright even nice in my view.

what is the deal. My mom said the same thing about selfies with her Iphone 5. I don't have an Iphone (or smartphone) but considering getting a newer model.

Iphone 5s freezes and iMessage problems?

I got an iphone 5s in mid December. Brand new. Ever since I got it some apps don't close. For example, youtube or even my photos won't let me close it 95% of the time. I can't use the home button when it does this, won't lock, eventually it just goes to the black screen with the apple on it then to my lock screen.
Also my iMessage works like 1/2 of the time?
Why does my phone do this?
Should I bring it to the apple store?