Phone keeps connecting to neighbours xfinity hotspot, how do i get it to connect to mine

I have an iphone 7 and an iphone 5 and everytime i try to connect to my hotspot in my house from my iphone 7, it connects to my neighbours. But my iphone 5 connects perfectly to mine. My iphone 5 has 3 bars and is fast wen usinf the hotspot but my iphone 7 has 1 bar and is slow so how do i get my iphone 7 to connect to the Wi-Fi hotspot in my house rather than neighbours. I know the way xfinity sets up their hotspots is stupid because they keep the same ssid for every router lol so you don't know which is which. But i know for a fact that my iphone 7 is connected to neighbours and is not recognizing my own. I've also tried forgetting the network and resetting network so i don't know. Might have something to do with ip address or something

Trying to transfer music from iPhone to new computer, missing files?

So I have a hard drive backed up with everything on my (now broken/unusable) computer before I bought a new one.
I just manually transferred all of my iTunes media into the new iTunes, but for some reason I'm missing over 100 items when I compare the song amount on my iPhone?

Is there any way to transfer the music from iphone to itunes, or be able to check which songs were not transferred? (I have thousands of songs)

I tried AnyTrans but the trial only allows 50 songs a day. Hoping to not have to shell out cash for a program lol.

Received random free iPhones?

Today I got two packages and I wasn't expecting anything. So when I opened them out of curiosity it was four iPhones 8 pluses from sprint. I have no idea where they came from and I don't even use sprint. What do I do?

Am I being too hard on my son?

My son is 15 years old. He gets amazing grades in school and in return I reward him with various things he wants (apple tv, new iphone, PS4, a tarantula, and new shoes). At home he is very uncooperative and ignores things I tell him to do so as punishment I told him I will no longer be rewarding him for his grades until he adjust his attitude. Ever since I did that he has become so rebellious. One of my biggest rules is no girls in his room and he broke that rule so I took away all the things he likes the most and we got into a big argument over it and he tried to punch me so I penned him down until he relaxed. I feel like i've been too hard on him and that is why he's acting this way.