I been in a friends with benefits relationship for such a long time, I'm young (17) and hes old enough to be my father probably but he's so handsome and looks younger, he has a wife that is 23 and they got 2 kids. It's just now barely legal that it's ok to be open about our relationship now. I was only 14 when he first knew me, took my virginity the night we met and we been buddies like this since. Yeah I know it was before against the law but we both agreed so it was technically "consentual" and my mother (single) just kept a blind eye to it because he spoiled me always really good and she had time alone a lot with her boyfriend(s). Don't worry I don't feel traumatized or whatever. I have been in love with him and not all girls are so lucky to have a real man in their life. He always made me feel good and like a mature woman that I'm not like other girls. He's the only man I been with and at least I didn't waste my teens with some loser from school.
Last 3 weeks almost now he's not called or text or seen me. I find out that he lied about being separated and he's not divorced or in process of divorce like he said. The other woman discovered me when she found my number on his cell phone and my pictures he would take of me. And she called and text my iPhone that he always provided and paid bills for and we met up and she told me the truth. She said they were just having problems but have been back together for long time now and this explains why he cut me off these past 3 weeks without telling me a word. I'm so heartbroken. Yesterday I took it in okay from her. Though today it hurts like a tone of bricks that hit me.