I'll keep it simple. I look fine in the mirror. With my two digital cameras (12.1 MP Sony Cybershot and 14 MP Fujifilm), I look pretty much how I look in the mirror, only reversed. I use flash on those cameras.
The flash on the iPhone makes me looked so washed out and pale and highlights any little spots. The front facing camera. I have no clue what it does, but I feel like it makes me look like I have really fat cheeks. It's pretty devastating how different I look. I'm thinking it's just the crappy indoor lighting? And that maybe flash on high quality cameras = more accurate? I dunno.
But I see people take iPhone selfies, and they look how they look to me. I just wish I looked the same as I imagine on all cameras.
Which is more accurate? Low quality iPhone pics? IPhone pics with flash? My cameras with flash? Mirror? I just wanna know what I look like to everyone else
Added (1). Edit:
@CmoreD I'm not the most attractive guy on the Earth, but I don't think I look THAT bad. (Though my confidence is pretty low.) I dunno, you decide?: 
Either way. That's a crappy iPhone pic with the front facing camera. Basically, the only time I take pics that I like are when I catch myself a little off guard. To be clear, I like that pic. But pics like that don't happen often AT All on the iPhone camera. I like 95% of my pics on the higher quality cameras. Again, I just wanna know what I look like to everyone else.