I have three of the gay social networking apps on my iPhone: Growlr, Scruff and Jack'd.
I was never one for hook ups, but I'm not looking for a long-term boyfriend (I had one for about a year and a half) so I'm considering maybe trying them out. 100% safe of course.
I have an attraction to older men and there was a bear on Growlr who contacted me for friendly chat and we've been talking for about 3 days. His profile is sending some mixed things. It says that he is looking for "friends, conversation, bears, cubs, chasers, etc., that he is in a relationship (it does not say open relationship) and his "about" section says that he is an average bear, looking for friends, that his partner and him have been together for 30 years and that he is a top.
If he is looking for "friends", why would be specify that he is a top? Is his partner in on this? Is he trying to cheat on his partner? I think he is attractive, and I'm not opposed to perhaps messing around, but I don't want to be the "homewrecker"
By the way, he's 52. I'm 21.