I ask you, am I too young or something? Here's my scenario, I got a job, work out and stuff, and I go to a community college, but all my life I just never talk to girls. I just like to avoid them and just stay away from them. When I'm in a big group, I don't talk I just remain quiet hoping something random happens. Like someone asks me something, if someone would just say anything to me. Is that good or bad? I'm avoiding theme because I heard that they love it. "She'll find you" everybody says. I've never talked to a girl since middle school. I like being by myself. Why doesn't a girl just flock toward me already? Every year I like to just play hard to get hoping at least one girl talks to me. It happens in the movies. I don't even talk to girls at the gym. I prefer not to. Is that a good thing? At parties I just sit on my iPhone or something. I just don't talk to them. I'm just waiting hoping they talk to me or something. I was told to wait. I was commanded to wait. Someone told me the best things in life are worth waiting for. So am I being myself by never talking to girls? Am I? Everytime someone says "just be yourself" that pisses me off! Am I being myself? Is God real? Will he make a girl appear out of thin air?