Which phone should I get?

Should I get an IPhone XS Max or a Huawei Mate 20 Pro? Could you also say why? If you think there's a better phone besides these too could you also mention it, thank you.

When I reset my iphone 7, it froze. When I force turn it off and then on, it shows the apple screen logo. It was been loading for hours?

When I reset my iphone 7, it froze. When I force turn it off and then on, it shows the apple screen logo. It was been loading for hours?

Added (1). It just shows the apple screen logo with a bar that says it's loading. Every time I turn it off and on, it goes back to the screen to finish resetting. It has been doing this all day. I would really appreciate any help!

Is the new iPhone X? The 2nd generation iPhone X?

They're basically very similar but the X? Has a faster processor and things?

I'm considering an upgrade to an iPhone X? Or X - I prefer my phone to have a large display and high resolution

Added (1). I currently use an iPhone 7 plus. Is it worth it to upgrade to an iPhone X?

Earphones keep turning up and down my volume on my iPhone?

Apple earbuds, iPhone 6s, the volume doesn't creep up or down it'll happen rapidly and occasionally it will pause what I'm listening to as well. I know that the little remote on apple earphones can pause and control volume so I was wondering if it's more likely my earphones are broken or my actual iPhone, or maybe I need to clean the headphone jack.

I'm jealous of my friends?

I'm 13/yo girl
Their parents have a lot of money, they're all showing off their iPhone sevens, heck one of them is getting the XR for Christmas, one of them has an Apple watch. I often see them on Instagram/Snapchat at parties looking all petty in their cute, expensive dresses, with their friends. They say happy birthday on social media to at least 2 people a day, therefore, they have more than 365 friends. My friends include: the 5 of them, three eleven year olds and a nine year old. They don't know I'm jealous by the way. What should I do?

Added (1). *pretty not petty

How to get a job at age 13?

I'm at the "In the middle" age, I'm too old to open a lemonade stand, but too young to get a job in a corner shop. My mum said I'm too young to babysit or get a paper round because I'm quite small for my age so it would be dangerous. I agree with her. My 12/yo sister has a job selling her art online and is making a fortune, I can't do this as this isn't one of my special skills.

The reason I want a job is so I can save up for an iPhone 6 which my parents can't afford because they have to pay rent, bills, food etc.

Also I'm from the UK if that helps.