My Girlfriend asked her to grab her phone and check the time, which I did. She has an apple iPhone and unfortunately I'm not too tech savvy with that brand of phones. Also, I do not feel comfortable sneaking on her phone.
I hit the power button on her phone to wake up the phone and saw a facebook message from another man ending in "Keep in touch, XOXO".
My concern is this: Is it normal for my girlfriend to be talking with another gentleman on facebook in such familiar/intimate terms? They are not family and I do not know if they dated (or had a one-night stand) in the past. My Girlfriend did bring this guy up briefly after a few months of dating--- she said there's an older guy who keeps inviting her and her child over when they are in the area (which is about an hour away from where she lives). She has been to his house before but I do not know the nature of their relationship and my Girlfriend was not receptive to talking about it. I followed up her statement with questions, but she quickly changed the subject.
I've been dating this woman for about 10 months. I love this girl to death! But I've been cheated on in the past and it hurt me badly. I've explained this to my Girlfriend right off the bat-- she said she'd never hurt me in such a way… I also have concerns regarding her lack of communication-- she has ADHD and tends to skip parts of my texts/emails/conversations (for instance when I ask her a question and follow it with a statement, she only responds to the statement). She seems to talk more in-depth with everyone else than she does to me…
I feel uncomfortable with my Girlfriend having intimate conversation's ending in XOXO with other men online--- am I just being over sensitive? Or is this a bit odd? Should I bring it up? Or leave it alone?