Is it even possible to put music on my iPhone 5 from a laptop?

I can't import my music on my laptop onto my iPhone 5, It's not the usb cable because it's brand new and works with everything else, My laptop pops up with an autoplay option but doesn't show something that can import music from, I've tried iTunes and windows media player and my phone doesn't even show up, is there any way I can sort this out, or is it just iTunes onmy phone I can buy music from?
My iPhone is a 32G and My laptop is Compaq, if that helps, thank you ;3

Verizon 4s found, can i use it?

I'm in a family plan from verizon.currently i have a lg lucid and want to switch to an iphone 4s. The only problem is, the iphone 4s is a phone my sister found. I don't know the details about the phone but is it still possible for me to use it under my plan?

Similar websites to Wootly that work on iPhone?

I'm looking for websites to watch tv shows besides transferring torrents via iTunes.
I have Wootly but they often don't have past episodes, so if somebody knows a similar website or a way to make Flash work (without jail break.) It would be very much appreciated!

I've also used Puffin Browser but that expired ^^

Apple support advisor swore at me?

I had a scheduled call with a apple support advisor at 3.30 today because i could not access my apple ID, we solved the problem eventually although it was a long conversation. As the call came to a close and i went to hang up but i didn't know how (my new and first iPhone) and i heard him clearly call me a "*** nob jockey".
surely this isn't aloud? And if not is it worth complaining?