Can you read texts online? Anyway?

So half of my family found out that my mom was cheating. My dad is trying to look for her messages, online, but can't. I know the password for my moms iphone. But should I look at her messages?
She keeps saying they're just friends.
But they sent messages, pictures, and etc.
I'm just really mad at both of my parents. When I try to say something, like "mom can you fix me breakfast" etc, both of them cut me off.

Can't decide which color otterbox to buy

I have a black iphone 5 & can't decide which color otterbox to buy which one stands more with black?

1.http://m.otterbox.com/iPhone-5-Defender-Series-Case/apl2-new-iphone-5, default, pd.html? Dwvar_apl2-new-iphone-5_color=20&start=3&q=iphone-5-defender&gclid=CJHC4OrDvrYCFRCpnQodCAIAAg

2.http://m.otterbox.com/iPhone-5-Defender-Series-Case/apl2-new-iphone-5, default, pd.html? Dwvar_apl2-new-iphone-5_color=20&start=3&q=iphone-5-defender&gclid=CJHC4OrDvrYCFRCpnQodCAIAAg

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My iMessage on my iPhone 5 won't work?

Early I was using iMessage perfectly fine and now I can't send iMessage and it's really annoying. I'm connected to Wi-Fi and 4G but still nothing. I restarted my phone, turned iMessage on and off and still nothing.

Why are iPhones so restricted?

Ip don't get me wrong it a great phone, an awesome phone, but it has so many restrictions.

-you can't Bluetooth with any device, not even idevises
-u can't download anything from safari… Anyways please give an answer based on facts, I mean you pay so much and you are stil restricted, why can't they have this option that if you turn it off it lets you download stuff from safari.

Secondhand Iphone 4s won't work, is it black listed?

We brought it from Amazon from a seller with a good reputation. But i feel now we have been ripped off, they said it wa unlocked to Virgin, Orange and vodaphone, but it doesn't work on Virgin or Vodaphone. We took it too one of the shops that unlock phones and he said it was blocked becase of an insurance claim. The seller said he doesn't understand, so now thinking we have be scammed.
as anyone got any ideas to help.

How to update my iphone 4 from 4.2.6 to the the 6.1.3?

Apparently I have not been keeping up with the times and let my iphone 4 get "old"
I downloaded itunes. Hooked up my phone. Went to the update and back up. It goes through all 3 steps then says Backing up Iphone… This takes for ever then the little box that says that will disappear and my phone isn't updated! I keep trying to click update and it does the same thing, about an hour later after it goes through the steps is just stops i guess and doesn't dowload the new 6.1.3…
can anyone help me fix this. There's so many apps I want to download and other stuff I need and I can't do because I don't have a new enough version.

What to do with waiting for activacation

My grandad just gave me his old iPhone that no longer works like a phone, but whenever I try to use iMessage it just says that it is "waiting for activacation" and it never activates… Please Help

Why is iMessage not working?

Today all of my texts were taking forever to send, and I mean a long time. It finally said sending failed and reverted to regular text message instead of iMessage. Why is that happening? Why is it going so slow when I text other people with iPhones? I did a software update and it is still doing it and it's not like these people are far away. Does anyone else know how ti make iMessage go back to normal?

Added (1). The Wi-Fi is connected so I don't know what the problem is. I can only use the regular SMS not iMessage.

Pre-order t-mobile iPhone 5 or wait for iPhone 5S?

I've always been updated with iPhones. I was literally the first person in school with a iPhone everytime ( iPhone 4, 4S ) but this time I didn't get the 5. Now I really want it, but is it worth it? T-Mobile is bringing the iPhone 5 for only $99 with $50 monthly plan payment. But, I think this means that the 5S is coming out soon? But what if it doesn't? I really want the iPhone 5, i'm getting really sick of my 4S.

What should I do? And if I do get it, what color should I get? White or black? My 4S is white.