Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 years and we don't text constantly because we both think it's pointless and we don't need to be up each other's butts all the time, but when we do text he reads the message (iPhones, so I know) and doesn't reply for 1-3 hours. However, when he's with me and someone texts him he replies as soon as his phone goes off. Why does he do this? Sometimes the messages are important, like one night I had to go to the hospital and he didn't reply until an hour later. It makes me so mad sometimes… When I ask him he says "I'm sorry" and never explains. Then if I ask what he was doing he says "I got distracted" almost every time and one time he told me he was watching his roommate eat ice cream. Like I believe that…