Earbuds not working (iphone)?

Okay so my earbuds work in my moms phone and my charger works but everytime i plug in my earbuds (or my beats) the sound plays like the earbuds arent even plugged in i've restarted my phone like 4 times and i turned off my bluetooth. Does anyone know what to do?

Good iPhone Lightning to Headphone Adapter?

Does anyone know of a good adapter that will last me a long time. I found one that looks good on Amazon, but some said it was awful, while others said it was great. Does anyone know what my best choice would be?

Any decent wireless earbuds that don't have those annoying rubber noise cancelling buds on them?

I can't stand those rubber noise cancelling buds you get on earbuds. I much prefer the standard earbuds like Apple Airpods have, but I don't really want those.
So does anyone know any other decent wireless earbuds that don't have those stupid rubber ends on them?

I've searched through loads, but can't find any. Beats, Bose, Skull candy etc… None seem to do them. Is it really only Apple that do them?