How to fix my iphone 4s stuck in recovery mode?

I have a iphone 4s jailborken.last night i wanted to do a software upgrade because someone said its gonna be ok and till then i've waitring for software to downoad and the anoying plug the phone to itunes imagine is keep showing on the screen. I;ve tried everything.every software… NOTHING is working. When i open with itunes it says to restore if i try to then error 9134 cames if i try to restore in dfu with another firmware the previous before upgrading another error apeARS 11 or it shows me there waiting for iphone to restore and i've waited 2 hours and nothing changed. Please is there some one to help me?

What do I do when I meet a girl for the first time after talking to her for 3 years?

SO basically I've been talking to this girl Madison for 3 years. I met her sadly on an iPhone chat app 3 years ago & oddly enough we really hit it off. We would Skype every night for at least 4 hours at a time (Keep in mind she's living in Colorado for the first 2 years) Those first 2 years we we're really into each other & things almost seemed perfect & if we were to meet it would be the greatest thing ever. But the last year we lost contact & things seem different. I messaged her on Facebook last week with a long meaningful message asking if she would like to meet me for the first time cause it would mean a lot to me, with her long response it seems like she still cares for me, well she ended up saying yes, which made me tear up a bit cause i really do care for this girl cause now we're only and hour & a half away from each other cause we're both going to school in Texas but I don't know if her feelings are still the same as they used to and I was wondering what exactly I should do from the start to not only see if she still likes me like she used to but also to see if she'll want to see me again cause I obviously would like to see her more than once being that we're pretty close to each other now.

Any Ideas would be appreciated. Just don't be a d-bag with your answer.

Best affordable, portable, handy camera?

I take A LOT of pictures with my iPhone that would look way better taken by a camera. I take pictures of all kinds of random stuff, just anything that really excites me. I share a lot on social media too. Basically, I need a camera that I can whip out at any given moment and snap a good picture, something with decent focus and zoom. And something that can take picture close up, I take a lot of pictures of my precious cat and dog, my nails that I paint funky designs on, and sushi. I like to have fun. I'm not trying to spend an arm or a leg here. I would LIKE to stay at $200 or under. I'm a broke college student. I hope I'm not asking for too much with the price I want to stay at.

IPhone 5 has no sound when receving calls or text?

So I just updated my iPhone 5 to the iOS 7, and for some reason, when I receive calls or texts, my phone doesn't make a sound to alarm me. ONLY when I'm using the phone, like browsing or using an app, it makes a noise when I receive a call or text. So when the screen is black and when I'm not using it, it doesn't make a peep. I've missed so many calls and texts lately. It's frustrating.

Can anyone help me figure out what the deal is? Thanks.

Added (1). And no it's not on silent.

Can you get bbm on a iphone now?

So everybody is saying all over facebook that you can get blackberry messenger on the iphone. I've tried finding it in the app store but can't see it.
If it is true how do i get it?

Is this controlling or normal?

My boyfriend and I have been in a year relationship. Recently I noticed, he would go on my google on my iPhone, and see what I typed. You know the way what you typed would come in highlighted? He goes through every single letter and sees what I searched. When I confronted him he said ' in only trying to be a better boyfriend to see what your looking up what your too afraid to tell me. I wish you didn't find me doing it because now you will stop'.

But one thing I searched was ' should I tell my boyfriend a guy hit on me?' And something about our relationship being intense, and he confronted me telling me he saw I looked it up. Again, the other day he searched up what I look up on my I phone. He does it slyly and doesn't tell me, but he doesn't cover his tracks.

Is this normal?
I don't look at his phone!

My iPhone got reset and I can't remember my cloud ID?

So I decided to reset my phone because I needed some apps gone, and I had a logical reason because I had two account on there and it was just confusing.
Anyways, I reset it but forgot what my email address was that had my ICloud account in there, along with all my pictures and contacts.

I'm basically sick, freaking out about this. Is there any way I can find out my email address, or reset my phone back to the way it was? Could I go to an apple store and would they be able to revive my contacts and pictures?