How to put music on my iPhone 4s? - 1

I recently got a iPhone 4s and I want to put music on it. I have updated iTunes to the most recent Version. I plug my phone into the computer and iTunes loads my device and everything.
I'm very confused can someone please be my hero and Help Me Out!

I DO NOT want to sync the photos on my PC to my iPhone?

I just plugged my iPhone in to my laptop for the first time (I used to have android) anyhow, I plugged it in and walked away to do some other stuff and when I came back I realized that iTunes was syncing all of my photos from my PC to my phone, Now I don't know how to delete these and how to stop it from doing this in the future, it already shows syncing 2K photos of 6K. I keep reading to click on the "Photos tab" but I don't see one in my iTunes… So Frustrated!

How to delete texts on a iphone?

Well I broke up with this one girl and we use to texts a lot. So I now have a new girlfriend and I text her now. But my problem is in the search screen it stills shows those texts even know they are deleted on the texting app. Please help I don't want my girlfriend thinking i'm still talking to the other girl.

How to restore a broken jailbroken iphone to a new iPhone?

I dropped my iPhone 4 (jailbroken, iOS 5.1.1) in the water and it died. I tried turning it on, but it didn't, tried charging it, still didn't do anything, then when I connected it to redsn0w and it said it was is "Soft DFU mode". I tried everything and couldn't get it out. I just got a replacement, but my last back was July. 2012. I don't know if I can somehow get all the data off my broken one and put it on the new one. The new iPhone is still a 4. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Which iPhone case is most protective?

I have an iPhone 4 and my otter box is in need of replacement lol but I don't want to spend $50 on a thick case that's going to tear up in another month or two no matter how well it protects my phone. I want it to be skinny so it can fit in my pocket but mostly protective. Any ideas?

Will verizon replace my iphone?

I just got the Iphone 4S back in November and my sleep button just stopped working. Will verizon replace my phone or do I have to go to an actual apple store?