Ok! Bear with me.
I'm a 23 year old nursing student. He is a 25 year old college coach, very shy and introverted.
We have hung out twice, our first time was a night on the town (we danced, we had a great time, it ended in passionate kissing) and our second time was in his apt (passionate kissing again, no sex, he stopped before it got too hot and heavy). At the end of our last date, we discussed seeing each other this weekend. I told him I'd let him know.
He texted me today, asking me what I'm doing tonight. I'm a nursing student, I'm very driven to succeed and do well in my classes, and I have a HUGE test on Monday. I responded that I'm studying.
Him: Am I going to see you at all this weekend?
Me: Yes! We will see each other. I'll make sure of it. Maybe Saturday for a little bit if you're free?
Him: A little bit?
Me: Unless I come over with my book and study stuff, haha. But then I wouldn't really be any fun.
Him: Yeah I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off of you either.
Me: :( What a bummer. Believe me, I'd much rather be with you than study for this test!
My text was sent at 2pm. He read it immediately, started typing (we both have iphones), and stopped. It is now 6pm. Why hasn't he responded? Guys, was my text mean or something? Did I say something wrong? Granted, his team has a game tonight at 7pm, but he just flat out didn't respond. I don't want to keep hounding him with texts. What should I do? How would you feel if you were him?
Added (1). By the way, we have discussed the fact that we both have busy schedules, and that since I'm a nursing student, I won't have much free time. He told me he thought about if I was going to be too busy to see him on our first date. I assured him that I will make time for him. I really like this guy. We have great chemistry and I don't want to ruin this.