My mom makes me feel guilty because she expects me to take care of her. Advice?

Just graduated and want to buy a home in a different state than I already am. But my mom wants me to help her get a place and pay the bills or buy a home here and pay for it. Thing is I'm frustrated with my mom because she doesn't try to help herself. Every time I go around her I'm financing everything, buying something to eat, phones off, clothes and shoes and gas and sometimes bills. She's married. But her husband can't keep a job. And she hasn't worked in over 15 years. I'm at the point where I'm tired of dishing money out to her. She only calls me when she needs things, expects for me to buy her iPhones and pay her bills. If I was rich I can but I can't. I feel sad because everyone doesn't have their mom. She wasn't the best mom growing up either. Every time I see her she looks sad and go on and on about money. Any advice? She says it's my job to take care of her

Any techies? My headphones aren t working anymore / broken phone?

So i have an iphone se and apple earbuds. I went to plug the headphones in to listen to spotify and no sound came out. I unplugged them and played the sound through the speakers and it worked. I was just using the apple headphones on my computer a minute ago and it worked fine. Then, i tried different headphones (axle) and that didn't work either lmao help me. I can't live without music

Added (1). it literally worked earlier in the day

IPhone Reset Not Backed Up

My iCloud only brought back my contacts but not my camera roll my notes my messages. Can I take this somewhere to get it back? There's no way it's completely gone

My parents won't buy me a new iPhone?

Before you say anything rude, just listen please. I'm 14 years old and I have an iPhone 6 right now, I got this phone for Christmas back in 2014 when I was 10 years old, And that was a really long time ago. I've had this phone for years now and it's all scratched up now, my birthday was on March 27th and my parents gave me $2000 to spend on whatever I want and I wanted to buy an iPhone X but they won't let me, they tell me "your phone still works" but it's old and scratched up. Does this sound fair to you? Doesn't it sound stupid how they won't let me get a new iPhone with MY money? I want to show them the answers. I hate them so much.